How To Change Career After Forty
One day, after 17 years and 6 months as a successful NHS Professional, I changed for ever. I went home at the end of a particularly enjoyable week, sat down in my lounge and finally changed my job.
And it happened in an instant. Although several years of procrastination, it took a milli-second to actually occur. The moment it did everything changed for good.
It changed. I changed. And the world around me changed. To be honest…it all happened frighteningly quick.
My career in the NHS took me to the cutting edge of medicine and closer to the top of the management tree than I had thought possible. A qualified nurse, a graduate in Public Sector Health Studies, a senior manager working with the world’s brightest professionals, leading experts in their field, managing hundreds of staff, on calls, £million budgets, and achieving government targets – it was a varied career, full of stress, excitement, learning, change, opportunity, and it was very worthwhile. I learned a lot about people and a lot about myself.
Even so it felt more like surviving than thriving.
It was with this knoweldge of who I was that led me to quit my job – I had had enough – I had gone as far as I wanted to -further in many ways. And it was my time for complete change.
What did I change? What did I start? What did I stop?
The most profound change was not in leaving my job after 17 years. Nor was it setting up my training and development business. At first it was doing my old job in a new way.
I stopped hiding my personality behind the “management cloak”. Stopped worrying about ” what will people think of me?” ” What if people don’t like what I’ve got to offer?” What if…? What if…? What if…?
Stopped blaming the boss. Stopped depending on my job for my status in life. Stopped accepting the status quo.
Instead I re-invented myself.
Now I was inspired. I started leading myself in a new way. Started seriously flirting with new possibilities. Started exposing myself to new roles and realtionships. Most of all, I was inspired to take a big bold stand for what I truly believed I could uniquely offer. I started experimenting and making new things happen.
I can remember the immense sense of freedom as finally, I removed my blinkers and looked at my work afresh. As a result I found more. More interests. More opportunities. More engagement. More satisfaction. More influence.
New possibilities revealed themselves as a result of being inspired, not the other way round.
Fortunately re-inventing the “SELF” like this does not require a 3,000 word business case highlighting all the strategic issues involved.
It doesn’t require a board meeting to gain approval.
It doen’t need a spreadsheet of rows and rows of costs and benefits detailed down to the bottom line.
Neither does it need a ten point plan career plan or personality profiling.
It just takes action. Spontaneously. Instantly.
Miraculously as everyone knows deep down, somehow our well developed neurological programming system can achieve this in a flash.
We just pretend it can’t.
What if…? What if…? What if…?
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To your career success
Angela
Posted on August 3, 2011, in Career Advice. Bookmark the permalink. 8 Comments.
Hello Angela
Just like reading my own story. In my case I was surviving not thriving in the Telecommunications sector. That was almost 14 years ago now and I have no regrets. So good luck to all the others who have left comments and are just starting on their own new journey.
Regards
Diane
Hello Angela
Your story is inspirational – thanks for sharing it and for starting this community.
I am in the middle of my own transition – 54 days to go before I leave my 36 year public sector career in health ( NHS and Department of Health) – taking early retirement to start my coaching practice – Craven Coaching and Mentoring Limited up here in North Yorkshire.
I will really look forward to being part of this on line community.
Do you know the Tony Wanless (Canadian) blog/website The Reinventionist? Also an inspiration for mid lifers changing direction. http://www.reinventionist.net
Regards
Filao
Hi Mark and Hilary. Thank you for sharing your experiences too. Career transition is a learning by doing practice. We start this process by taking action. Congratulations – you are both examples of career change in action I look forward to hearing more from you – your successes and your war stories as you navigate your way through this exciting new chapter in your lives. Learning and sharing collectively. Best wishes Angela
This resonates with me too… Just resigned from one job and moving onto another and feel this is probably an interim move to the real me role.
Well, it’s a coincidence because this week, I’ve been in my government-related job for 17 years and 6 months too, and, like yourself Angela, I have seen the light. Following a dream and doing something you really want to do, which of course includes offloading the shackles of the current job, does feel liberating, even though I have another 8 months before I actually leave.
An inspiring set of words that should resonate with many people. As someone who is at the crossroads, I’d like to read more about your experiences.
Thanks,
Mark.
WOW this is inspirational ~ especially ‘Even so, it felt more like surviving than thriving.’ love that xx
Nice article, the line ‘Even so it felt more like surviving than thriving.’ especially resonates for me…
Phil
Thank you for your comment Phil.